As the children age, one of the important ongoing interviews parents need is about alcohol.
Drinkaware charity research shows that 62% of 13 to 17-year-olds would turn to their parents or guardians if they wanted more information about alcohol. And it is important that they are well informed about this topic, although it is legal for children over five years of age to have alcohol at home or in other private establishments, the NHS recommends children and young people not to drink alcohol before the age of 18, health warnings risks if they drink at a younger age.
The NHS states: "Starting drinking before reaching the age of 14 is associated with increased health risks, including alcohol-related injuries, involvement in violence and suicidal thoughts and attempted suicide."
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Some parents believe it will allow young teenagers to drink a little at home to be more responsible drinkers in the long run. A recent study by University College London and Pennsylvania State University showed that one of the six parents in the UK left their children drinking alcohol at the age of 14.
But Professor Jennifer Maggs, who led the study, says, "Parents can believe they can let children drink, learn to use them responsibly, or they can actually vaccinate against dangerous drinking, but there is little research to support these ideas."
Dr. John Larsen, of Drinkaware, says that many studies have shown that parents have a significant impact on the attitude and relationship that their child develops with alcohol. "While every parent or guardian may decide to bring his teenage talk about alcohol in different ways, it is useful to have clear rules and that interviews are open and honest," he says.
Charity has the following advice for parents to chat with their children about drinking …
1. Get the right tone
Do an interview, not a lecture.
2. Get the right timing
Do not wait for them to meet friends.
3. Find the hook
To start a conversation, find the hook as a recent movie or television story if you can.
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4. Be honest
It's much better to admit to what you did at their age than to find out that you were whiter than white (unless you were, of course).
5. Set the rules
Teenagers feel safer if there are guidelines and boundaries.
6. Set a good example
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Remember, kids do not, as you say, they do like you. To prevent children from getting drunk, they can first check their own drinks and make changes before you talk to them.
7. Help them say "no"
Drinkaware's research found that 65% of children who have been drinking alcohol for at least a certain amount of time are good at enjoying or avoiding them. So make sure that your child understands that saying "no" to alcohol does not mean that he rejects a friend, or he is dull or rough, only caring for himself.
Get them to talk to you and practice as much as possible. It will also help them if you ever prove this behavior in social situations by rejecting an alcoholic beverage when you offer it.– Print the association